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Mama Blogger of the Month!

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[photopress:meme.jpg,full,pp_image]Meet Jamie of Horoscopically Blonde, our Mama Blogger of the Month! Jamie is a side-splittingly funny gal who is the blog diva of YourHub.com. Join us for our hilarious interview with this verbose mama!

First things first: why are you Horoscopically Blonde and not just dumb like the rest of us?

I’m the only person I know who parks in front of my house, catches a glimpse of my vehicle from the corner of my eye (probably while I’m looking at something shiny), and then says, “Oh! I wonder who’s here?â€? followed by—and more importantly, “Darn it! They’re blocking my mailbox.â€?

Tell us about the Horoscopically Blonde family. Are there any fake (blondes) in the mix?

The Horoscopically Blonde family consists of four children, an adorable husband, a cat that strategically vomits on my things, and an insane, evil dog that barks at the big, red yoga ball while breaking wind. Only the dog is blonde.

My oldest son is 15. To his credit (or because he’s extremely clever), he claims to like Def Leppard. I just wish he’d wear pants more often. My youngest son is 13. He stands in front of automatic doors and holds out his hands. I ask him what he’s doing, and he tells me he’s “Using the Force.â€? Yeah. Well, if the ‘Force’ was so great, why doesn’t it pick up his socks? My oldest daughter is 11 years old. She has my sense of humor, but thankfully, not my thighs. She can make neat noises with her armpits. My youngest, and most rambunctious daughter, is 7 years old. When she grows up, she has informed me she will be a singer, a writer, an actress, and a doctor. That puts her above most of the young pop stars, who only text one another, sing occasionally, act like idiots, and play doctor.

When did you start blogging and why? Do you have a background in writing?

It’s usually one of those things where people tell you, “You ought to write something,â€? and so you do (if only just to see if those folks meant what they said). Sometimes you fail, and sometimes you’re lucky enough that people are willing to give you some of their time by reading what you have to say. If people like what I have to say, they respond. What I’m providing is just part of the conversation. I feel fairly fortunate. For years, my conversations centered on who the best Ninja Turtle was. Now, I’m talking to other adults who want to share similar experiences.

I’m now writing for ParentsCanada magazine, and am currently working on a book. Aside from Horoscopically Blonde, I also write a blog called The Lighter Side of Low-Carb. It’s where I keep my daily stuff: weight loss since January (I’ve managed a 61 pound loss to date) and recipes, coupled with experience in a family of folks who are gluten intolerant, autistic, teenaged, or simply trying to get by in a world filled with sporks and tasty baked goods. If weight loss could be considered fun, then I’m having loads of it. The readers are hilarious, helpful, and make me smile every day– And they don’t chew with their mouths open in my ear.

You are one funny lady. How has your sense of humor helped you with motherhood?

Thank you for the generous compliment. (Note to self: send this woman a ham).

Around here, it’s hard not to laugh. Even when someone is in trouble, it’s usually something ridiculous. I remember, one time I was downstairs in our house in Portland, OR, when my then –five-year-old came down the stairs, pants soaked to his knees. Just as his mouth was about to open, my eyes were drawn up towards the ceiling. As I squinted, I noticed that all of the light fixtures down the hallway were simultaneously filling with water, and light blue spray began shooting everywhere. Then a large portion of my bedroom ceiling came crashing down five feet from where we were standing.

I looked at my son, as water ran down our faces, leaving blue streaks, which tasted, incidentally, like Tidy Bowl. He squeaked, “I wondered what Legos would do if I flushed them down the toilet.â€?

Taking the steps three at a time, I threw my arms over my face as waves of water rushed in a low wall from the upstairs toilet towards me. I was sure I saw the Scrubbing Bubbles man on an Ark at one point trying to collect up the Lego giraffes.

I’ve learned to deal with the emergencies, and to keep a sense of humor about them—promptly after grounding the five-year old and, banning the toilet as a play space (and changing the flavor of our toilet bowl cleaner).

You mentioned that losing your mom in a tragic car accident when you were 13 was the most defining moment of your life. How?

My mother, my sister and I lived in a small apartment in Sussex, Wisconsin, across the street from an industrial complex and railroad tracks. Most of the time we lived there, we had no furniture (it took the military ages to ship things in those days), so we had lawn chairs and used boxes for tables for a while. I remember that my sister and I had beds, and mom slept on the floor. But she had a sense of humor like you wouldn’t believe, and she never complained. I take that for granted now. Regardless how tough things were, she always kept a stiff upper lip (and not just the kind with facial hair).

I think things were starting to look up, as furniture finally arrived, and we moved towards Christmas in 1983. I had finished a gingerbread house in Home Economics class that I looked very much forward to carrying home that afternoon to present to my mother. Because we were fairly broke, being able to give anything in those days was special. I worked diligently on that house, carefully cutting through difficult dough, and then decorating it carefully to look as though it has been frosted by a Wisconsin snow itself.

I remember that very ordinary morning my school counselor brought me into the office from Mr. Dart’s history class. When they sat me in the conference room, they told me that an hour before, my mother had died in a head-on collision with a semi truck not a mile from where I was sitting. Her car had spun on some black ice on a bridge and she lost control. I remember the local newspaper article—a blanket strewn over her body, still in the warped vehicle—as news reports said she had been Christmas shopping (this wasn’t true, but it was a heartstring puller, to be sure…). I still have the calculator that was scuffed in the wreckage, and use it to this day.

I remember being annoyed at being prodded by the questions of the counselors and having kids look at me and treat me with the extraordinary kindness that is mandated for kids who were either told they were going to succumb to a fatal disease or to those who had lost their parents. I was a celebrity in the school suddenly, and it didn’t feel right to be popular due to something that terrible.

The long and short of it was that no matter how hard life was for my mother she always had a good sense of humor. Even when she pinched me for saying, “fart,â€? or lectured me about calling boys on the phone (even though back then you had to dial, so it was harder work), she instilled in me a work ethic, to keep a positive attitude, do what needed to be done, and to provide for others—even when you’re sleeping on the floor.

On YourHub.com, readers rate your posts and your average blog rating is 4.98 out of 5. What do you want to say to the individual(s) who messed up your perfect score?

If you’re a writer with an audience, and if they disagree with something you’ve said in that particular piece, then it’s generally that kind of a ding. I look at it this way: I have four kids. If I can make it through breakfast without going insane from the smacking sounds of young people who still can’t chew with their lips together, I’m not going to let much else perturb me.

Besides, you can always find out who it was—and, more important—you can bean their lawns.

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Comments
  • comment avatar Catherine Dix April 10, 2008

    Def Leppard… now there’s a boy who’s got taste! Is this the same child that flushed the Legos? :)

    I must follow your blog’s link to read more!

  • comment avatar horoscopicallyblonde April 10, 2008

    Thank you so much for the opportunity and honor of being the Mile High Mama for the month of April.

    In fact, I am so excited about the opportunity, I shaved my legs!

    (A little man named Jacques who lives on a platform atop one of the old growth hairs shakes his petit fist at you all.)

    I give cred and thanks at YourHub (my blog) and am, as well, thankful for your superior editing skills.

    I hope that others will see you not so much as an enabler of someone who still thinks that it is ok to move my lips Kung Fu style behind people talking loudly on their cell phones in public so much as a beacon for making other readers feel better, more mature and with smoother, more supple legs than people like me.

    Because I’m all about the whole making you feel better about yourself.

    Thank you again,
    Your friend to the north,

    Jamie VanEaton
    Horoscopically Blonde

  • comment avatar horoscopicallyblonde April 10, 2008

    Oops! I think I sent the same thing nearly three times. Or four.

    Which is what makes me so technologically savvy.

  • comment avatar horoscopicallyblonde April 10, 2008

    And she asked me why I’m Horoscopically Blonde…

  • comment avatar horoscopicallyblonde April 10, 2008

    Hi, Catherine!

    OMG, I almost left an audio-only comment. Wouldn’t that be frightening?! Some nasal, Laverne DeFazio voice coming out at you for no apparent reason whatsoever?

    Yes, he is the same child. He is VERY forgiven, especially because he also likes Tom Petty. He came to me the other day and he said, “Have you ever heard of Boston?” Cheeky little scamp!

  • comment avatar Eva April 10, 2008

    H-I-L-A-R-I-O-U-S interview. Congrats on the feature!

  • comment avatar Candace April 10, 2008

    This was so fun! You are a great wit and darn girl – great job on the weight loss!

  • comment avatar Lizzy April 10, 2008

    Wow, your moemories of your mother make me want to stop all the silly whining I do as a mom. And your toilet story FAR surpasses my toilet story. What “flavor” toilet cleaner do you have now? Do they make strawberry toilet bowl cleaner? They ought to just for you.

  • comment avatar KarenJ April 10, 2008

    So great to see your positive outlook on life! I checked out your blogs and I will definitely be back.

    Oh, and how is it you are writing for a Canadian magazine? Are you a Canuck?

  • comment avatar horoscopicallyblonde April 10, 2008

    Eva– Thank you! It was easy to have a great time. Amber asks fantastic questions.

    Candace– Thank you so much for your kind words! When you have my butt, all you have left is wit. And a lot of weight to lose… it goes hand in flabby hand…

    Lizzy– Now there’s an idea! If they sell eau de toilet, why not Scenty-tasty toidy water? After all, the cat and the dog seem to like it.

    Karen J– Thank you so much! I appreciate the very generous compliment! I just happened to be at the right place at the right time for the job. When opportunity knocked, I grabbed it by its armpits and gave it a big snog. I am not Canadian, but I love Canada– and not just because Corner Gas is the best. show. ever.

  • comment avatar Lisa April 12, 2008

    Gracious, girl. I love the way you write! It is as if you are right there having a hilarious conversation. Great job and congrats on mama blogger of the month!

  • comment avatar Nik April 14, 2008

    Jamie, I will say it again. I am not even worthy to worship you. I have watched your blog evolve on YourHub, eagerly checking it every day with the slavering voracity of a heroin addict at the methadone clinic, and I am so proud to see you honored as Blogger of the Month on this fantastic site!!! xoxoxo

  • comment avatar Barbara B April 17, 2008

    As usual, your wit and humor are so wonderful to read. This was a great interview.

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  • comment avatar Wifezilla April 17, 2008

    Awesome! Congratulations :D

  • comment avatar BarbDe April 20, 2008

    You ROCK!!

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