Comments on: Ostrich parenting and when mental illness and addiction are in your gene pool

By: in broomfld

in broomfld — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:21:18 +0000

Ever been to an Al-Anon meeting? Support for Families and Friends of Alcoholics/Addicts.

By: One Mom's Opinion

One Mom's Opinion — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 20:39:17 +0000

Mr. Lady as usual you threw caution to the wind and put it all out there. It’s one of the many things that I love about you, your family and your writing.

You’ve shown me so much since my hubby found your blog and told me it was right up my alley.

Most of us struggle and have issues, I don’t know of any parent that doesn’t. We push through it and do the best that we can for ourselves and our families.

You have endured a massive pile of obstacles that would have condemned far too many to a life of pain and suffering. Instead, you have embraced your past and shown us a great deal about who you are and who you’ve become.

http://onemomsopinion.blogspot.com/

By: Sheri

Sheri — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 03:09:25 +0000

I come from depression on both sides as well, and although I don’t really think I was abused per se, I know there were times when things were not good. The best part is that I realized I had a problem when I was about 15, and I didn’t keep it to myself. Now, 4 of my 5 siblings have experienced depression or/and bipolar. Once we started talking about it openly (after my sister tried to kill herself) my cousins confessed in droves, and it was helpful for a cousin who was suffering from post partem at the time. If we don’t acknowledge and speak up- how will anyone ever get help? Congrats on your openess and awareness- it will make all the difference.

By: Aimee Greeblemonkey

Aimee Greeblemonkey — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 05:24:43 +0000

You always have my heart and hugs, babes.

By: A mom in the burbs

A mom in the burbs — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 04:11:18 +0000

As I have crept out of my own dark shadows from my childhood, I have to say that becoming a mother to GIRLS, is indeed, frightening for me. Because I understand the particular impact that being a girl has on my relationship with them, just as my mother had on me.

I REFUSE to be my mother. I will cherish my children. I will be a voice for them in this world. They MATTER and are IMPORTANT.

I think that the fact that you are AWARE of your past and sensitive to the ramifications, you (and your daughter(s)) will be just fine.

You are a brave mama. Your children are blessed.

By: Momma, The Casual Perfectionist

Momma, The Casual Perfectionist — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 02:34:26 +0000

What a great post! Thank you for sharing this personal part of yourself. I’m a lurker over at your blog, and it’s good to see you here, too!

~Momma
aka The Casual Perfectionist
http://thecasualperfectionist.com

By: Kari

Kari — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:42:51 +0000

P.S. Priceless picture of you and your daughter.

By: Kari

Kari — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:42:33 +0000

Unspeakably moved by this. THANK YOU for your honesty. I come from a similar background and it is amazing to hear of someone who lives through it.

By: polly

polly — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:22:11 +0000

Mr. Lady~
I applaud you. Wow. Not everyone can fully and honestly tell their story. That there is a big step by its self.
I am proud of you.
just to let you know-you are not alone in this thing we call life. HE is right there with you.
When things get rough and hard to function-just remember-to lean on HIM.
HE is the greatest. and Mr. Lady HE will help you through anything.
Trust me. I know.

and Mr. Lady. You are a good mom! Be proud of your self.
You are human. everyday is a new one.

and all of GOD people said.

AMEN!

By: cheri

cheri — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:01:54 +0000

What an insightful look at yourself and your family history. This brings tears to my eyes because I spent 6 years as a therapist for families involved with social services. If one of the young girls I worked with ever has the ability to express themselves so clearly and the courage to change family patterns, I will be incredibly proud of them.