To Speech or to not to Speech – When Speech Therapy Proves Helpful!
A few weeks ago, the evening before Take Your Child to Work Day, we received a call from my daughter CJ’s speech therapist, asking whether we’d mind if she brought her daughter to class the next day.
“Why would we mind?” I asked Kyle after he got off the phone.
He shrugged. “Privacy issues. Some people don’t want anyone to know their kid’s in therapy.”
Considering that we announced CJ’s entry into speech therapy in our holiday cards, we obviously don’t care about keeping that information private. In fact, if you give me half a chance, I’ll spend twenty minutes talking about how much speech therapy has helped her and what a pleasure the process has been.
CJ didn’t speak as early or as clearly as her sister Tacy did, but we didn’t start to wonder about it until she was about eighteen months old. When Tacy was eighteen months old, she could recognize (and say aloud) all of the capital letters, and she routinely spoke in complete sentences of four to six words. CJ, on the other hand, had a total vocabulary of a couple dozen words, none of which were easily understood.
We were concerned, but we didn’t want to be alarmist. So we waited, hoping that the fabled “language explosion” would happen any day.
But it didn’t happen. And after several more months of frustration – on CJ’s part and ours – I made the call to Child Find.
She was evaluated and determined to qualify for services – one hour of speech therapy each week. The therapist would come to our home to work with her.
Speech therapy was a big hit from the very beginning. Not only did CJ adore her therapist, but we saw immediate improvement in her vocabulary and her articulation. She went from single words to two and three word phrases and sentences within only a few weeks. Plus, we could understand what she was saying, which greatly decreased the tears and frustration as we were able to respond quickly and appropriately to her.
Only a few months after she started therapy, CJ was evaluated again to determine whether she would qualify for services after she turned three. Before age three, services are administered by the county; after age three, it’s transferred to the school district. If she qualified, she’d be placed in a pre-school class setting for an hour or two each week.
Although she had made great strides, based on her evaluation she did still qualify for services. Once she turned three, “Miss Jamie” would stop coming to our house each week, and CJ would participate in a small class (1:4 ratio) at a local elementary school twice a week instead.
During her last several weeks of at-home sessions, CJ grew increasingly inattentive to the activities directed by her therapist. Even though her therapist told us this behavior was normal – that CJ was ready to move on – I hoped that it wasn’t an indicator that she would be uncooperative in the new setting as well.
I needn’t have worried. From the very first class with “Miss Nicole”, CJ has done beautifully. She looks forward to each class, and she’s never cried – or even appeared the least bit unhappy – when I’ve waved goodbye and left her there.
Moreover, we continued to see great improvement in her speech and articulation. I truly enjoy taking her out on errands now; we laugh together and have actual conversations. She is a different child.
Granted, she still hasn’t yet caught up with her peers. Her social language isn’t on par – for example, she’s just now learning how to answer the question “What’s your name?” and she insists that SHE is six years old and that Tacy is three. And I still can’t understand her about 10-20% of the time.
But I wonder how far behind she would be if we hadn’t called to inquire about services. I’m so glad we didn’t wait any longer than we did. Given how much progress she’s made and how attached she’s become to her therapists, I’d gladly recommend Child Find to any parent who’s the least bit concerned about their child’s progress.
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I have a strong testimony of speech therapy! We intervened early with my youngest and he was all caught up by the time he started kindergarten and you’d never know he ever struggled.
It is a huge benefit. I was in it as a child for a lisp, and my second and third children were in it for their…. lipsy accent (no definition) thing.
They are now thriving teenagers and no one knew they ever had issues. It’s wonderful to get your children into it, throwing out the ego and stigma placed on it will help the assistance even more for those kids!
Our kids received services through Child Find too. One of our daughters was a late talker, and she went through a similar speech therapy regimen: a year or so of therapy in our home, followed up by weekly sessions at the elementary school. She’s all caught up now, and going to Kindergarten in the fall. I’m a HUGE fan of early intervention, as I also have a child with autism. Those early months are just critical for helping kids catch up. It’s incredibly frustrating to me how LITTLE parents are made aware of places like Child Find and Denver Options. Especially considering how many kids are diagnosed with autism nowadays – why aren’t pediatricians handing out pamphlets with all the phone numbers of local agencies?
LaLaGirl – Twinfinite Chaos
I also noticed a problem with my son at about 18 months and called Child Find. He was diagnosed with apraxia of speech and received therapy at home, then in small group, then in preschool. Now he’s about to enter kindergarten, and people who who have met him only recently look at me like I’m crazy when I tell them about the speech therapy because his speech is perfectly age-approrpriate now. I am incredibly grateful to the Child Find people for diagnosing him and helping us get him back on track. Without that help, I think he would be a very sad and frustrated kid at this point.
Child Find and speech therapy has been wonderful for us. I didn’t know about Child Find until I called a speech therapist and she set me straight. My youngest has been going to the local elementary this year and has been making great progress. It’s my hope that when he starts kindergarten in 2009 he’ll be caught up. Fingers crossed…
One more followup comment – if you’re looking for the number for Child Find, you can go to the Colorado site for Early Childhood Connections and click on the link in the upper right corner for “State & Local Contacts” – that link will take you to a drop-down list of counties, and you can get the information you need for the county you live in. If you happen to live in Denver, the agency you need to contact is Denver Options, and their phone number is 303-birth-2-3.
LaLaGirl – Twinfinite Chaos
Having known her since she was an infant, I can honestly say it’s amazing how far she has come. Rock on CJ!