Comments on: Confessions of a 24-year-old virgin http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/ Denver parenting, with altitude Thu, 09 Feb 2012 15:16:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: 24yovirgin:P http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1101 24yovirgin:P Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:52:19 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1101 well my name says it all... i guess xD, i am a 24 yo and i am still a virgin, I'm kinda staying that way till i get married, cause i believe in that, as a matter of fact I am eager to stay a virgin till the right time comes to "really" change my life, i also heared once that "being attached and to never forget about the 1st partner is v.common" so i believe in what i am doing, i hope i was alil helpful to you ....or some1 else, if not ...well sry to waste ur time xD and take care well my name says it all… i guess xD, i am a 24 yo and i am still a virgin, I’m kinda staying that way till i get married, cause i believe in that, as a matter of fact I am eager to stay a virgin till the right time comes to “really” change my life, i also heared once that “being attached and to never forget about the 1st partner is v.common” so i believe in what i am doing, i hope i was alil helpful to you ….or some1 else, if not …well sry to waste ur time xD and take care

]]> By: Deux Ex Machina http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1100 Deux Ex Machina Sun, 23 Dec 2007 05:49:13 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1100 I learned about sex from my friend Sharon when I was five. Haha. My mother never approached me until I came to her one night, terribley upset that I knew about sex and she'd never told me. We had a rediculously long conversation about how she thought I'd come to her instead. I lost my virginity at 15 (I'm now close to seventeen), to my boyfriend (we were best friends before we started dating, so we knew eachother for about ten months before we had sex), and we are still dating. Thank God for sex-ed, because they taught us condom use, emotional safety, and a lot of other useful things. Yea, they taught abstinence, sure. But since we were best friends and loved each other very much, we decided that it wasn't right for us. We're still dating and still loving each other, too. :) We plan on marrying after I graduate early my senior year. My only complaint was we were both virgins, and we had to kind of teach each other everything. Very sweet, emotional first time, but we both sucked at it. Learning together was fun, though! Bonding, too. I learned about sex from my friend Sharon when I was five. Haha. My mother never approached me until I came to her one night, terribley upset that I knew about sex and she’d never told me. We had a rediculously long conversation about how she thought I’d come to her instead. I lost my virginity at 15 (I’m now close to seventeen), to my boyfriend (we were best friends before we started dating, so we knew eachother for about ten months before we had sex), and we are still dating. Thank God for sex-ed, because they taught us condom use, emotional safety, and a lot of other useful things. Yea, they taught abstinence, sure. But since we were best friends and loved each other very much, we decided that it wasn’t right for us. We’re still dating and still loving each other, too. :) We plan on marrying after I graduate early my senior year.

My only complaint was we were both virgins, and we had to kind of teach each other everything. Very sweet, emotional first time, but we both sucked at it. Learning together was fun, though! Bonding, too.

]]> By: Eve http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1099 Eve Sat, 22 Dec 2007 01:23:41 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1099 My parents were not very open about it. I won't go into the gorey details of my experiences with it, good and bad. But I am totally open with my kids. It's a "they ask, I answer" policy in my house. That way there is never an issue with having "the talk" because for us it's an ongoing dialogue. My parents were not very open about it. I won’t go into the gorey details of my experiences with it, good and bad. But I am totally open with my kids. It’s a “they ask, I answer” policy in my house. That way there is never an issue with having “the talk” because for us it’s an ongoing dialogue.

]]> By: Aunt panub http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1098 Aunt panub Thu, 20 Dec 2007 18:00:06 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1098 Boy did you let the cat out of the bag on this one..I'm not telling!! No one gave me any advice and I'm not giving any either; my generation was "see no evil, speak no evil, do no evil or someone might tell your mother. I found a manual when I was baby sitting for a friend...thank you very much! Boy did you let the cat out of the bag on this one..I’m not telling!! No one gave me any advice and I’m not giving any either; my generation was “see no evil, speak no evil, do no evil or someone might tell your mother. I found a manual when I was baby sitting for a friend…thank you very much!

]]> By: elasticwaistbandlady http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1097 elasticwaistbandlady Thu, 20 Dec 2007 14:03:06 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1097 I'm sort of prudish and blush when people are too overt in their sex talk. I’m sort of prudish and blush when people are too overt in their sex talk.

]]> By: elasticwaistbandlady http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1096 elasticwaistbandlady Thu, 20 Dec 2007 14:01:16 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1096 I rely on listening to Dr. Laura with my kids to open up awkward dialogue and point out consequences and such to treating the temple that is their body in a frivolous manner. I rely on listening to Dr. Laura with my kids to open up awkward dialogue and point out consequences and such to treating the temple that is their body in a frivolous manner.

]]> By: Tori :) http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1095 Tori :) Thu, 20 Dec 2007 04:33:41 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1095 I'm all about being a big mouth. And laughing a lot so the kids know it's ok to be silly as long as they understand what I'm trying to teach them. I’m all about being a big mouth. And laughing a lot so the kids know it’s ok to be silly as long as they understand what I’m trying to teach them.

]]> By: SJ http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1094 SJ Thu, 20 Dec 2007 04:10:08 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1094 I think I may have blushed a little reading through all the comments! And I'm a grown woman! Love the dog-pole! http://andallthejonesmen.blogspot.com I think I may have blushed a little reading through all the comments! And I’m a grown woman! Love the dog-pole!

http://andallthejonesmen.blogspot.com

]]> By: Annie http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1093 Annie Thu, 20 Dec 2007 02:48:04 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1093 "...the dog-pole." LOL! That is funny and true. “…the dog-pole.” LOL! That is funny and true.

]]> By: Lizzy http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1092 Lizzy Thu, 20 Dec 2007 02:27:10 +0000 http://www.milehighmamas.com/2007/12/19/confessions-of-a-24-year-old-virgin/#comment-1092 The best sex advice my mom gave me is what I call the dog-pole. She basically informed me that men get excited way too easy. They can get the same physical effect from doing a dog or rubbing against a pole (pardon my bluntness). So, if a guy said he HAD to have me because only I could make him happy he was lying. It was very important for me to know this because it helped me to recognize love vs. libido. Oh, and I had kind of the same experience with a doctor. He quizzed me about my sex life and just didn't seem to believe me... until he started the exam. The best sex advice my mom gave me is what I call the dog-pole. She basically informed me that men get excited way too easy. They can get the same physical effect from doing a dog or rubbing against a pole (pardon my bluntness). So, if a guy said he HAD to have me because only I could make him happy he was lying. It was very important for me to know this because it helped me to recognize love vs. libido.

Oh, and I had kind of the same experience with a doctor. He quizzed me about my sex life and just didn’t seem to believe me… until he started the exam.

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